They Told Him He’d Never Make It...

A few years ago, while writing my first book, I had the opportunity to interview former big league pitcher Brandon Bailey. He made it to the majors with the Houston Astros in 2020, but that’s not the sole reason I wanted to talk to him.

What really intrigued me was his journey—the way he defied the odds and overcame so many obstacles to reach the pinnacle of professional baseball. His story was a reminder of the power of resilience, determination, and unwavering self-belief. During our conversation, Brandon shared a powerful memory that stuck with me: “I remember high school teammates telling me I’d never make it to professional baseball. I remember travel coaches telling me to go to junior college because I wasn’t a Division I talent. I remember scouts saying I was too small to be considered a prospect… But I’m thankful for those experiences because they motivated me to prove them wrong.”

Brandon’s words made me reflect on how often people—whether they’re coaches, teammates, or even family members—say things that can easily discourage us. It’s unfortunate, but it’s still far too common for those who are supposed to support you to actually tear you down. I’ve experienced this myself as a ballplayer in high school. There are always people who will doubt you, question your abilities, and try to define your limits. But nobody should have to navigate this journey surrounded by people who don’t have your best interests at heart.

So, what was it that kept Brandon going despite all the negativity and discouragement? It was his mindset. It was his unshakable belief in himself and his ability to overcome any obstacle. While many young athletes might have let the words of coaches or teammates become self-fulfilling prophecies, Brandon chose a different path. He didn’t let those doubts from others shape his identity or his future. Instead, he used them as fuel to push harder and prove them wrong.

This is the crucial lesson: it’s okay to hear what others have to say, to listen to advice or criticism, but ultimately, it’s up to you whether or not you let it affect you. You control how much weight you give to the opinions of others. You decide whether their words shape your actions, decisions, and beliefs about yourself.

Throughout my own career, I’ve been given plenty of feedback, both constructive and critical, from a wide range of people—some I respect, others not so much. I’ve listened to every piece of advice, but I haven’t always acted on it. If I had, the Billy the Batboy brand would have been extinct, and I would have been molded into something that didn’t reflect who I truly am. Even when the advice or feedback is given with good intentions, it doesn’t always need to be absorbed or acted upon. Not every well-meaning suggestion is worth taking to heart.

The key is this: you are the best judge of what’s right for you. No one else knows your mission, your vision, or your potential like you do. You don’t have to follow someone else’s script for your life. Stay true to your own path, and trust your instincts. The doubts of others are only obstacles if you allow them to be. Use them as motivation to keep proving to yourself, and the world, that you’re capable of more than they ever imagined.

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