Are You Choosing Instant Gratification or Long-Term Fulfillment?

One of the biggest battles young people (especially young athletes) face today is the overwhelming temptation of instant gratification. We live in a world where everything is at our fingertips. A new video, a quick “like,” a flashy highlight reel - all accessible within seconds. So it’s no surprise that this culture has conditioned many of us to crave quick results and constant rewards.

But here’s the truth: anything worth achieving takes time, sacrifice, and a whole lot of discipline.

I’ve written before about the power of patience. It’s something I’ve had to learn, and I’m still learning. But patience has a close cousin… delayed gratification. It's one of the most important muscles an athlete can develop.

Think about it like this: You won’t always feel like training. You won’t always see results right away. The extra reps in the cage, the solo sprints after practice, the stretching, the recovery, the diet - it doesn’t come with instant applause. There's no scoreboard for offseason effort. No crowd cheers when you hit the weight room at 6 AM. But that’s where greatness is built… in the quiet, unglamorous moments that nobody sees.

When I was in high school and college, I spent most weekends working on my craft. While others were out enjoying the moment, I was locked in, not because I didn’t want to have fun, but because I knew what I was building. I understood that if I put in the work now, my future self would thank me later.

This is something I constantly remind young athletes: you can’t cheat the process. You might be tempted to skip a session or hang with friends when you know you should be getting extra swings or watching film. Missing one workout won’t ruin your career, but it sets a pattern. A mindset. One that says, “comfort is okay.” And once comfort becomes a habit, hunger fades.

Delayed gratification means being okay with not getting the reward today. It’s trusting that the effort you put in now will pay off in the long run, even if nobody else sees it. Even if it’s hard.

So, here’s the question: Are you making decisions that feel good now, or ones that will feel even better later?

Because every rep, every practice, every small choice you make - it all adds up. And while others are chasing the short-term high, you’ll be stacking bricks for a future you can be proud of.

Play the long game. Your future self… the one holding the trophy, signing the contract, or simply walking away proud - will thank you.

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